Conflict Matters

Jan 12
Difficult conversations: identity
Am I ever really useless, incompetent and/or unworthy of love?
Oct 30
Difficult conversations: Feelings
Do we have to talk about feelings - how can we avoid this?
Oct 1
Difficult conversations: the FACTS
How come the other person wont accept the facts in our dispute?
Sep 5
Difficult conversations
difficult conversations need to happen on three levels: facts, feelings and identity
Aug 7
Our Vain Brain
We all want to be right, and to protect our sense of self at all costs
Jul 9
Communicating compassionately
“We all come to disputes with both needs and baggage, awareness is key
Jul 9
Restoring Relations
How old were you when you figured out what 'justice' meant?
May 11
At the crossroads
Every dispute we face puts us at a crossroads: how do we determine which road to take?
Apr 10
Negotiation
Tips on negotiating with parents, teenagers, spouses and more
Mar 12
How often is the dispute the other person’s fault?
High Conflict Personalities are a challenge, here is a summary of how to deal with them: